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    Oregon Daily Emerald, OR
    March 7 2005

    Community gathers to remember Hatoon

    The Saturday memorial commemorated a woman who "lived life her own
    way" and lived happily
    Ayisha Yahya
    News Editor

    March 07, 2005

    She will be remembered for her entrancing stories. Her bursts of
    humor. Her bright lipstick.
    She will also be remembered for her caring nature. The insights she
    brought to those whose paths she crossed. Her intellectual spark and
    the many lives she touched over the years because she lived her life
    just as she wanted.

    Students, faculty and community gathered on a sunny winter afternoon
    to pay tribute to Hatoon Victoria Adkins. Adkins, a long time
    resident at the campus, was killed on Tuesday as she was crossing
    Franklin Boulevard on her bicycle. Most recently, Adkins, 67, had
    made her home on a bench just outside the University Bookstore, where
    she covered her things with a blue tarp. In the days since her
    demise, Adkins' bench has evolved into a shrine with flowers, candles
    and tubes of lipstick, which she loved.

    Eugene Police Officer Randy Ellis, who knew Adkins for many years,
    said she taught people everything from tolerance to vulnerability to
    caring.

    "We learned that we're not invincible," Ellis said, adding that the
    impact Adkins had on those who knew her was evident from the
    outpouring of love since her death.

    "We wanted what was best for Hatoon, but only Hatoon knew what that
    really was," Ellis said. Ellis said Adkins, who was known for her
    many diverse stories, taught people to listen. "Listening is
    something that few of us really know how to do," Ellis said.

    Ellis said Adkins' life was not a failure. "She lived life her own
    way," he said.

    Adkins suffered from mental illness -- those who knew her described
    her as drifting in and out of lucidity. Ellis said Adkins made her
    own choices and was able to surround herself with a family of
    friends. She did not consider herself homeless or mentally ill, Ellis
    said; she had a home right there outside the bookstore.

    "We should not allow her life or her memory to be devalued by these
    meaningless labels," Ellis said.

    Before Adkins' death, Ellis had been talking with the University to
    try and arrange a trailer for Adkins to live in. And over the years,
    many different people had taken her into their homes for short
    periods of time.

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    Marcus Larson | Freelance photographer

    Poppe, an acquaintance of Hatoon Victoria Adkins, bows his head in a
    moment of silence during Adkins' memorial service outside the Knight
    Library on Saturday. Adkins, 67, died at Sacred Heart Medical Center
    from injuries sustained after she was struck by a motorist March 1.
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    University Bookstore General Manager Jim Williams also knew Adkins
    for many years, saying she was a "good neighbor" -- she often helped
    the bookstore staff take out the trash each morning.
    He described her as a magnificent, if somewhat complex woman. "Hatoon
    was not really homeless ... she just chose not to live cooped up
    inside a building," he said.

    Adkins was not a regular face just at the bookstore. She was often
    seen at the Knight Library, and she once lived outside it. Many also
    crossed paths with her at the Student Recreation Center where she was
    a regular patron. Those who worked out with her or saw her exercising
    remember her strength -- one man said she could easily "outpress 15
    frat boys any day."

    "She was my role model for working out," Tevina Benedict, who helped
    organize the memorial, said. "We all need to keep our bodies strong."


    "That chick was buff," said Professor Emeritus of English Ed Coleman,
    who knew Adkins for 30 years.

    Adkins was also a regular visitor at Blue Heron Bicycles on 13th
    Avenue, where she became close friends with Kerri Vanden Berg. Vanden
    Berg said Adkins was quite conscious of people's belief or disbelief
    in the things she said. After many long conversations with her
    throughout the years, she said Adkins "began to make perfect sense."

    "So many times, you put my own life into perspective," she said at
    the memorial service. "I missed you today, I'll miss you tomorrow. I
    am blessed."

    Many others recalled Adkins' concern for them. She would ask about
    their health or about their children, tell them how nice they looked,
    share her thoughts and opinions. Adkins was born April 30, 1937, to
    parents of Armenian descent. She is survived by a sister, son,
    daughter and granddaughter. In a letter, read by Williams, the family
    members expressed how much they would miss her.

    "Never one to hold back opinion, Hatoon encouraged open hearts and
    open minds," the letter said.

    Referencing Robert Frost's poem "A Road Not Taken," Ellis said Adkins
    had taken the path less traveled and all people should try to do the
    same.

    "Decide to be happy; make others happy," he said. "Do not wait for a
    better world; make a better world."
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