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  • In Memoriam: Armen Matigan, 99, Genocide Survivor, WWII Vet And Eter

    IN MEMORIAM: ARMEN MATIGAN, 99, GENOCIDE SURVIVOR, WWII VET AND ETERNAL OPTIMIST
    Armen Matigan

    http://www.reporter.am/go/article/2012-03-21-in-memoriam-armen-matigan-99-genocide-survivor-wwii-vet-and-eternal-optimist-
    Published: Wednesday March 21, 2012

    Matigan during his military service.

    Glendale, Calif. - Armen Matigan was born to Ghevont and Lucy Matigian
    in Constantinople on May 18, 1912, nearly 100 years ago.

    His family was miraculously spared most of the trauma of the Armenian
    genocide. When the first world war broke out in April 1914, his father
    moved his wife and son to Bulgaria. They were set to move to New York
    in 1918 on the very day that the Armistice was declared; they changed
    their plans and moved back to Constantinople. His sister, Roupine,
    Armen's only sibling, was born in 1920. Armen's father moved to New
    York in 1921 to join friends in starting an oriental rug company. His
    wife, two children and his mother's uncle, Sarkis, moved together to
    New York in 1926.

    During the Great Depression his father's business suffered, and
    Armen delivered newspapers to help out. There would be stories of
    Armen's parents putting newspapers in his boots to keep his feet
    warm on snowy days. None of them spoke English when they arrived,
    which was tough on a 14 year old, but he loved school and considered
    himself very lucky to be in America. He couldn't get over the fact
    that a high quality of education was free, and he was so grateful.

    His grades were good - he scored 98% on the New York State Regents
    exam in geometry, and thought he could do better, so he took the
    test again and scored 100%. He went to Columbia University for his
    undergraduate degree, which he earned in 1935, and then to dental
    school at the University of Michigan. Armen spoke especially about the
    intellectual life at Columbia, which was one of the high points of his
    life. It wasn't easy for him in college but he loved it all the same.

    In September, 1942, during the second world war, Armen voluntarily
    joined the Army. He spent time in Virginia, Baltimore, Washington and
    California before being stationed in Saipan, in the Pacific, in 1944,
    and was discharged as a captain in 1946. He seldom talked about his
    experiences in the service, but he is remembered telling a joke that
    uniforms came in two sizes: too big and too small.

    After the war, Armen took time away from dentistry to join his
    fathers business.

    In 1953 he met Christine Haroutunian - whom everyone called Achouk,
    and they married in December of that same year. Armen opened a private
    dental practice in Queens, and in 1961 their son Robert was born.

    After he retired, they moved to Manhattan in the mid-1980s and his
    love of philosophy took him back to college, Fordham University,
    at the age of 75.

    Robert, meanwhile, had become an engineer and moved to California. In
    2002, Armen and Achouk moved to Glendale, CA to be near Robert. In
    the summer of 2009, Christine passed away; their last words to each
    other were 'I love you'. Armen passed away on February 21, 2012 just
    two and a half years after his beloved wife.

    We have fond memories of driving with him to Asbury Park to visit
    his vacationing parents, and of him us to the arcade on the Asbury
    boardwalk for treats and games. Once a year, we remember spending
    time at the Armenian Church bazaar in Manhattan, he would take walks
    with us in the neighborhood. During Christmas he enjoyed showing us
    the Christmas displays in the store windows on Fifth Avenue.

    There was a place near Times Square that was a genuine spaghetti
    factory and ten out of ten people would have called it a dive. They
    would slab noodles into a bowl and slab some sauce over it, and it
    was inexpensive but very good. Armen loved things like that; he was
    happier in places like that than in haughty restaurants. Later in life
    he developed a fondness for the fries and coffee at McDonalds which
    he went every Sunday with Robert. He was incorruptibly unpretentious.

    He loved to teach things. His catchphrase when he explained something
    was 'Get the idea?'

    Armen would always do what was best with integrity in his professional
    life as well as his personal day-to-day experiences.

    He loved the stock market, and he seemed to be an eternal optimist. We
    remember when in October 1987, the day the stock market dropped
    about 23% in one session. Armen was sitting with us on the front
    porch listening with us to the radio. Everyone else was in despair;
    Armen perceived it as a buying opportunity.

    He was as persistent, stubborn, tenacious or relentless - you could
    choose the word depending on your perspective at the time - as anyone
    could be.

    But we bring up this side of his personality out of respect for how it
    got him through life and with his health challenges during these last
    few years. However, we never heard him feeling sorry for himself,
    nor do we ever remember him expecting anyone to cut him any slack
    out of pity. It's yet another example of how deeply we admire him.

    Armen was an exceptionally devoted son, who came to see his mother
    almost every day. And, in this, life was perfectly fair to him,
    because his own son, Robert, was just as exceptionally devoted to him.

    We have never seen anyone show more care for his parents than Robert,
    and we extend our gratitude to Robert for what he did for his mother
    and his father over the years.

    When he died last week he was almost 100 years old. That's a long
    life by anyone's standards, and we were all aware of how much his
    illnesses had impaired the quality of his life, but it seemed to us
    that it ended too soon.

    He fought to the end. He was doing his physical therapy and improving
    when one night he finally became unresponsive and passed away in his
    sleep. We are glad he was spared more suffering, but the sense of
    loss is profound. He was a great brother, friend, uncle, and father.

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