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    Suffering To Fill The Demographic Gap: "we Have Children To Be Proud Of Them, Not To Feel Sorry For Having Had Them."
    By Julia Hakobyan

    ArmeniaNow
    26.10.12 | 11:29

    Photo: Srapion Gevorgyan

    Margarita Hakobyan (left) and Armenuhi Manukyan (far right) during
    the protest action in front of the president's residence

    Armenian mothers having large families have decided to pass from
    words to deeds and demand from authorities a review of attitude
    toward their families and pay them appropriate allowances. Otherwise,
    say some of the mothers, they will leave for countries that offer
    better conditions.

    A group of women who bring up from five to twelve children gathered
    earlier this week in front of the president' s residence on Baghramyan
    avenue, demanding meeting with the president and putting forward a
    number of social and economic demands.

    Women who say they considered themselves "heroines" say they don't
    want to be considered "beggars" only because they are forced to accept
    a scant welfare from the government.

    "No session in the Parliament during the 21 years of independence was
    ever devoted to such issue, as 'families with many children'. No MPs
    have ever suggested to give us a status of 'large family' to let us
    enjoy some privileges," Armenuhi Manukyan, a 40 year old mother of
    11 children told ArmeniaNow.

    "We often hear 'Why did you ever bother to give birth to so many
    children?' But I believe this is what we had to do -- to give birth to
    children and to educate them. We wished to be proud before our nation,
    not to be condemned by it," she says.

    The issue of large families (usually considered 3 or more children) is
    controversial in Armenia as such families are hardest hit by poverty.

    As Emil Sahakyan, a spokesman for UNICEF Armenia says over 70 percent
    of large families live in poverty and most of the children, living
    in boarding schools, are from such families. Conditions in Armenia
    have created a 'Catch-22' in that declining population demands an
    increase in births, yet social hardship makes it very difficult for
    families to support even one child.

    Like in Manukyan's case, parents of large families are often being
    criticized for giving birth to many children, given the background
    of social insecurity.

    In their turn, mothers having many children believe that families
    like theirs can improve the demographic situation in the country.

    Yet in April, a group of women wrote a letter to the president,
    demanding a law on large families, issue certificates to them, which
    will guarantee free medical care, free education for children, reduce
    or free them from utility fees, plus provide pensions and apartments.

    Mothers emphasized in the letter that large families make up a "tiny
    percentage" of the population.

    The exact number of "tiny percentage" is not in fact known as there
    is no official statistic on the number of large families in Armenia.

    Roughly, families with more than 3 children make less than 10 percent
    of the population. Despite the alarming demographic situation in
    the country, plus ongoing migration, the legislation says nothing on
    large families and does not provide allowances for them - except a
    "bonus" when a child is born. One-time monetary aid of about $125 is
    provided for the birth of the first or second child and $1,100 for
    the third child, an amount, which will be doubled by 2014.

    The government pays about $18 allowances per month for each (under-age)
    child, based not on the fact they are from large families, but on
    the family's hard social-economic conditions.

    But even with such amount of welfare, families can hardly survive.

    Manukyan says seven of her children are under-age and she gets 68,000
    dram ($170) allowance, an amount that hardly covers food staples for
    her family of 13. Manukyan's family living wage makes daily less that
    $1 per person.

    "My husband gets disability pension of 78,000 ($195) as a Karabakh
    war veteran. None of us work. How is it possible to raise 11 children
    with only $365 per month?," Manukyan says, adding, that they owe more
    than $2,000 in overdue electricity bills.

    Meanwhile, "The Support to large families" non- governmental
    organization, led by Margarita Hakobyan, (the initiator of the protest
    action in front of the president's office) is going to apply again
    to the president, asking, why the letter they send yet last April
    remained unanswered.

    "If the country's president does not respond to us, who else can we
    turn to?", says Hakobyan, 45, a mother of five children.

    Hakobyan says she decided to set up the non- governmental organization
    because she herself realized that no other body would protect their
    rights. (The organization now has 200 members.)

    "It is ridiculous, but the mothers of many children do not have
    a single document, proving it. Information on family and children
    must be submitted to some state body, and women every time must go
    through many steps, making copies of documents, spending money on
    transportation and paying state fees."

    Hakobyan, a businesswoman who is heading a law office, says that apart
    from increased allowance, she wants society to change their attitude
    to women with large families.

    "It's shameful how authorities and society treat women. After all,
    these children will serve the state interests. Two of my sons served
    in the army, others will soon. We have children to be proud of them,
    not to feel sorry for having had them."

    Meanwhile, officials say that a positive dynamic is observed in
    Armenia's demography. In 2002 there were 32,300 births in the country,
    while in 2011 the number reached 43,400.

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